by Sam Juliano
When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are…
It is human nature for one to wish what they are not. Kids always think in terms of big. Many want to be taller, some want to be much stronger, others want to be anything other than what they are. The most famous wisher of all started his life as a wooden puppet, and his hankering was to become a real boy. The funny thing about wishing though is that if it were possible to actually happen it would eventually leave this advocate for change none the happier for forfeiting the very special and unique qualities before the transformation. The life cycle is always the same. Kids want to become adults, and are all to willing to bypass the formidable years to achieve equality with parents, relatives or some others they idolize. Young ones try to emulate the behavior and mannerisms of adults, and fantasize of being different, usually in the most extreme manifestation. Invariably, when they do get older they regret that their childhood wasn’t longer nor better appreciated. It is a lesson they learn too late, but as kids would never understand this concept. Wishing is usually harmless, but the consequences of avarice has been well noted in the literature. A royal flounder repays a kind fisherman for letting him off the hook, but repeatedly granting his wife a series of wishes. Prodded by her greed, he wishes (and gets) a cottage, castle, servants, and queen of the realm, but when his wife asks to be God, they are returned to their poor shanty. In W. W. Jacobs’ The Monkey’s Paw a bid for a lot of money leads to unspeakable tragedy and a macabre conclusion. (more…)