by Sam Juliano
My weekly post as always is a “diary” and as such my own seven day report is one of unspeakable grief, the worst I have ever experienced in my own life. My brother Joe’s beloved oldest son Brian, who lived several years with my father, shockingly passed away mid week at age 35 (he never woke up after complaining of chest pains) as a result of a long period of on an off drug abuse. Many efforts were made to remedy the problem, and he was in rehabs, but in the end the abuse affected his heart. This unspeakable tragedy leaves us all shaken to our cores.
On the other grief-stricken front I do speak to Allan everyday and almost always for long online conversations. His attitude has improved greatly and he has been immersing himself in movie talks and all the new releases. His treatment begins Wednesday, and I call on everyone to send on their best to a successful negotiation of the chemotherapy.
Thanks to all for the very kind words.
I honestly have nothing more to say at this time, other than to note I have been trying to divert by watching a bunch of discs Allan sent – mostly Japanese classics, and have been sharing my findings back with him – a practice that gives him some pleasure.
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My sincere condolences to you and yours.
Thanks so much Robert. Much appreciated!
Sam, so sorry to hear about this tragic loss in your family. Brian’s young age makes it more heart-breaking. Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Indeed Sachin, heartbreakingly true. Thank so much!
I’m so sorry to hear you have having such a tough time Sam, but considering the closeness and your nephew’s age it is no wonder. Condolences to your entire family at this sad time.
Thanks as ever for the concern and kind words my friend!
Sam, I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending love and comforting thoughts to you and and your family as you grieve.
Thanks so very much for that Brandie!!!
As you know, Sam, you all have all sympathies from Pam and myself during this terrible time.
Thanks for your ongoing support and kindness my friend. And thanks to Pam too of course!
So sorry, Sam. Wishing you solace during these difficult days.
Thanks for the kind words my good friend! Much appreciated.
Sam, it’s been a very tough week for you, my friend. Sending prayers and good thoughts to you and your family.
The most hellish week imaginable my friend. Thanks so much for the very kind words.
Hi, Sam. I am a total stranger, and I am so sorry to hear all of this for you.
David, this was a lovely gesture, and it is deeply appreciated my friend.
My sympathies, Sam. I’m so sorry to here of your loss. What with Allan in the hospital and everything else, it seems like you’ve been having a rough go of it the last couple weeks. Hang in there.
Thanks so very much for that Stephen. Yes it has been the worst of times for us. Your kind words go a long way with me my friend.
Sam – I’m so very sorry for the anguish you and your family have just gone through. My deepest condolences.
Thanks so very much for that my very good friend. Yes it has been a terrible time, and not easy to move forward. But we must do so.
Sadness and grief are hand and hand experiences. The lessons will bring release I hope for moments of joy in your conversations which will carry you through. Such is living well with deep connection It is the story telling..
Beautifully framed here Patricia. Thanks so much for the exceedingly kind words my friend.
Sam, I am so, so sorry for your extraordinary loss. You and your family are deep in my thoughts.
Thanks so much for your supremely comforting words Jeffrey my great friend. Deeply appreciated.